What is
Speedfriending?
Just as it sounds - the quick and easy way to make friends! Speedfriending is a fresh way to meet like-minded people (in the Denver metro area at this time) who share your interests.
As adults, making friends can be tough! Whether you're new to town, looking to expand your social circle, or just want to meet people who share your passion for hiking, craft beer, or board games - we've got you covered.
It's a game-changer for meeting new people - less awkward than traditional networking and more meaningful than fleeting conversations at other types of meetup events. It's like speed dating, but for making friends!
How It Works
Wait for Enough Interest
Once enough people choose the same topic (at least 20), we organize a Speedfriending event.
Make New Friends
Join an event, meet new people, and make lasting friendships!
Frequently Asked Questions
What is unique about Speedfriending?
We're not a dating event. We're not a meetup or networking event where it's your job to introduce yourself to everyone. We organize events based on shared interests and facilitate brief conversations, helping you quickly connect with like-minded people.
How is Speedfriending structured?
Very similar to speed dating. Participants meet each other through a series of short, one-on-one conversations. At the end of each conversation, participants move to meet a new person and start a new conversation. They keep track of who they've talked to and who they'd like to connect with after the event, and we facilitate those connections.
What should I expect?
A welcoming environment usually at a bar or unique venue, light refreshments, often including a drink to help break the ice, occasional breaks throughout, and of course engaging conversations with people who share your interests. No need to prepare anything. Just come ready to chat and be yourself!
How many people attend each event?
Ideally we like to have between 20 and 40 people for an engaging and well-paced event. Our goal is to have enough diversity in interactions without making the event drag on.
How long are the events?
Event duration ultimately depends on the number of people attending. However, they typically last around 2-3 hours, with about 5 minutes per conversation, plus breaks. We'll also usually have a social gathering after the event so you can keep talking to people you've hit it off with.
Will I get to meet everyone at the event?
Yes! The structured rotation should ensure that each participant gets to meet everyone at the event but that could change based on the actual turnout - we'll do our best to make sure everyone gets to meet everyone else!
What should I talk about?
You can talk about anything you want! We'll provide conversation starters and everything else you need. Our goal is to organize events around common interests so that you can meet people who share your passions - which should make it easier to strike up a conversation!
What if I click with someone?
Great! That's the whole point. We'll ask that you try really hard to not exchange contact information during the speed rounds. We'll collect details about matched friendships and facilitate introductions after the event. That way no one is really pressured into exchanging contact information in the heat of the moment.
What if I don't click with someone?
That's OK! There are going to be lots of personalities and interesting people to meet. Each conversation is only 3-5 minutes so just be polite and move on when the round ends.
What if I feel uncomfortable during a conversation?
If at any point you feel uncomfortable, you can politely excuse yourself and discreetly notify a facilitator, who will assist as needed.
What happens after the event?
We'll collect details about matched friendships and facilitate introductions after the event. That way no one is really pressured into exchanging contact information in the heat of the moment. Now if you end up chatting during breaks or after the event and it is clear that you both want to exchange contact information, well there's nothing we can really do to stop you!
Where are Speedfriending events held?
Our Speedfriending (speedfriending.org) events are currently only held in the Denver metro area. We're working on expanding to other areas soon! Feel free to contact us or check back for updates. The great folks over at speedfriending.com have been organizing events for years in Norway if you happen to live there!